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How to Create Femininity With Sexuality

 

A woman is naturally a source of love, sexuality, and femininity. But in our modern world, a woman often forgets about her feminine nature, because, for social reasons, she is often forced to behave like a man. Women not only became active, but began to focus more on male achievements, and male qualities of character. This brought a great imbalance in the world, and in relationships. Women who have made this transition find it increasingly difficult to find a mate to build strong and happy family relationships.

 

What does femininity mean?

There are patterns in the behavior of men and women that have been established since time began. Women are feminine and men are masculine, and the two form a partnership.  For this puzzle to work, both pieces are needed to function as they were created.

Femininity does not mean to be weak, but warm, harmonious, sensual, social, and therefore, happy. A women's strength is concentrated in her softness, beauty, kindness, and love, as well as her ability to enjoy what she has. She gets along with people and inspires her man’s exploits. Such a woman enables her man to be strong and courageous which is also extremely valuable.

 

Clothing is an outward expression that identifies femininity. A classically feminine lady can dress in a variety of ways, not just in a dress or skirt because her wardrobe is only a secondary attribute of her femininity. Femininity is primarily expressed in the inner qualities of character, manners, voice tones, tempered movements, posture, and the glowing gaze of her eyes. Therefore, in jeans and old pajamas, she is able to charm and remain a real woman.

 

Femininity through the eyes of men.

A woman's femininity is displayed in so many wonderful ways. The playful gaze keeps all eyes fixed on her. A warm smile that always seems to be on her face. The graceful way that she walks into a room. Her buoyant energy solicits excitement. The warm tone of her voice, and how she swings her hair while deeply gazing at her man.

 

A woman at the peak of expressing her femininity allows the playful little girl to come out of her heart. A woman expressing her feminine superpower will cause a deep desire from within her man’s soul to protect, love, cherish, and care for her. According to psychologists, this concept of femininity includes 5 qualities - beauty, empathy, caring, tenderness, and friendliness.

 

Beauty

"Beauty is subjective!" This is true. Some like blondes, while others like brunettes. Some men are crazy about voluptuous women, while others like athletic figures. However, beauty transcends physical parameters making all women equally beautiful.

A woman needs to be conscious of both her outer and inner appearance. Wardrobe, hair, skin, nails, smile, nutrition, and other personal hygiene areas must be maintained. No one says that you should spend hours in beauty salons every day, but taking care of yourself is a must. Hair and nails should be neat, and clothes and shoes should be clean. Your skin and breath should smell good. Posture, demeanor, and your choice of look are all very important because they say a lot about you. Taking great care of your appearance says about your attitude towards yourself.

 

Empathy

Femininity through the eyes of men implies empathy. In psychology, this term refers to the ability to empathize with the interlocutor and their situation. Women are more emotional than men. Their strength lies in their artful ability to sympathize, and share the sorrows and joys of loved ones. Women create a harmonious atmosphere around them and inspire men to greatness.

 

Caring

On a subconscious level, femininity is associated with motherhood and caring for the younger generation. Therefore, men appreciate women who know how to run a household, cook, clean and create a comfortable home.

 

Tenderness

Tenderness is applied to caring and empathy.  This is the ability to express the softer side when caressing, consoling, and supporting her loved ones. She sees the beauty in the ordinary and makes the imagery of a room or a perspective more delicate and sophisticated. Her demeanor softens, she lets down her hair, chooses pastel colors in clothes or accessories, and wears airy dresses and skirts more often. 

 

Friendliness

A woman filled with love is friendly and exudes emotions of joy and admiration. She smiles for no reason, laughs often, and can create a conversation out of thin air.

 

What is the difference between femininity and sexuality?

Sexuality is about the body and bodily pleasures.  Femininity is about drawing out a man’s relationship desires in the classical sense of the word. Femininity and sexuality can exist separately from each other, or they can be present together. They also can be weakly manifested. The ideal option is one in which both qualities coexist in you at the same time.

So, femininity without sexuality creates the impression of an infantile woman. And sexuality without femininity is aggressive and emotionally cold.  It is the combination of these two qualities that keeps a balance in a woman's life and influences how others perceive her.

How to develop femininity in yourself

1. Be gentle and sometimes show weaknesses.

2. Optimism is a very attractive quality.  Smile more, be able to enjoy the little things, and learn to live in the moment. Every day is unique and should be appreciated.  Men love positive women.

3. Take care of yourself. Take care of your skin, hair, and body. Exercise, because it is not only your beauty but also your health. 

4. Develop spiritually. Read books, go to museums. Appreciate the attention he pays you, and what he does for you. Even if he gave you wildflowers and not a bouquet of a hundred roses, this does not mean that you are not dear to him. Commercialism can be destructive to relationships. The fact that a man showers you with gifts does not indicate the seriousness of his attitude toward you.

5. Love, accept, support, and try to understand your loved one. Only a feminine girl can inspire a man to succeed and achieve his goals.

6. Create a comfortable home environment. He should know that he is always welcome at home.

7. Another secret of femininity is exposing your true natural beauty. It is the natural woman who can win the heart of a man. When a woman is not afraid to be herself and accepts herself; this speaks of a harmonious personality with inner balance.

 

Conclusion

Femininity in every girl is inherent in nature itself. It is in every woman. Awakening femininity is not a task for parents, teachers, or the environment – It's born from a woman’s inner sensual light. Open yourself up. Feel and accept yourself. Then your femininity will bloom like a flower. Realization of your femininity is a superpower, and the perfect way to salvage the most hopeless relationship. Femininity is the only true luxury a woman can have.

 

A feminine woman is always a mystery that a man seeks to comprehend. This attraction does not dry out even with time. Inner femininity is manifested in everything: in light coquetry, warmth, and unobtrusive desire. Every minute spent with such a woman is like a holiday that delights the heart of a man and creates a sense of relaxation for his soul. He will want to return to such a woman again and again to the point of creating a family.

 

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