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What Does It Mean To Be A Woman?

 

 

“The beauty of a woman should be visible in her eyes - this is the door to her heart, the place where love lives." Audrey Hepburn.

 

A woman is balanced, harmonious, wise, tranquil, inspiring, and feminine. They say that a woman's strength is in her weakness. But they don’t just say that - this is the truth!  When a woman wants to build a long-term, successful, and happy relationship with a man, she must be able to show this “weakness” over time.

Women's weaknesses, oddly enough, are one of the key sources of her strength. What other power strengths do women have?

1. Flexibility. Due to their flexibility, a woman can adapt easily to many different situations, people, and circumstances. Women are able to withstand crises and difficult times. Due to the same flexibility, a woman is able to adapt to her husband and also find solutions to conflict situations.
2. Peaceful.  When she is calm and full of love, she can soothe any conflict. Whether it's an irritated spouse, a naughty child, an angry boss, a depressed girlfriend, or a nervous shopper in the checkout line, with one word or look, a peaceful woman can put out the flames of anger, and resentment without any wars or confrontations. With the same force, she can bring an atmosphere of peace to a house or any other space. Everyone feels relaxed, open, and trusting in her company.
3. Chastity and Purity. Chastity for a married woman first and foremost is that she’s loyal to her husband, and abstains from any extramarital relations even if they aren’t sexual.  Loyalty and respect for your spouse, not only on a physical plane but also emotionally - give huge results in family happiness. A woman’s purity extends to her should of words, and what she wears.
4. Obedience. Obedience in a relationship begins with mutual respect. No, you are not a slave, but a cooperating partner. Women need to learn to listen to significant male mentors and apply the valuable advice they offer. Remember, behind every great man is an equally great woman.  True, not always the wife.  Sometimes a mother or a sister.  But definitely a woman.  Be sure to follow your husband, let him lead, and inspire him to be all that he can be.
5. Happiness. The radiance of a woman’s happiness attracts like a magnet.  A positive attitude blended with a passionate love for life is the natural state of a woman's soul. Any man appreciates a relationship with this woman. 

 

How to Create the Woman's State

 

A woman’s state is the essence of her being – who she is. The state of a happy woman, filled with joy and Love, creates strength and inspires the people around her. Every woman has an inherent, deep, natural potential for strength in this area. You just need to realize your uniqueness, sensuality, and inner magnetism. A happy woman creates a space of love, harmony, and well-being around her.

To create a feminine state filled with love, start every morning with gratitude to God, your family and the world around you. Fill yourself with this feeling of gratitude. Enjoy every day of your life. Find beauty and uniqueness in every moment. Create a festive atmosphere around you. Be feminine in your actions with flexibility, lightness, and playfulness.

 

The power of femininity inspires and pacifies men. It is from this state of femininity, inner peace, lightness, harmony, and inspiration that we create and form a feminine state filled with joy and love. You need to remember this rule: a woman must learn to feel what’s in her heart first before trying to think through an issue.

 

Remember, men and women see things differently. Every minute you need to learn to distinguish your feelings and, if there is a need, to express them. It is especially useful to express your feelings, and emotions to your beloved man. Indeed, sometimes he does not even know what you really feel and does not know how to behave correctly.

 

Express your feelings freely to your man when he does something nice for you. Perhaps say, "I feel happy that you ……". Conversely, when you feel discomfort or difficulty, say:  "I feel insecure, I feel bad…..."  Of course, the words you choose will depend on your situation. Hearing these words from you, a man will be able to navigate and behave in a positive and helpful way.

 

The sphere of "creativity or intuition" should be present in the life of every woman. Creativity is medicine for a woman.  Every woman has some favorite pastime or business interest. Find an area of interest that inspires creativity like embroidery, cooking, photography, dancing, singing, writing a book, or even wrenching on a classic car. At least once a week, find time for developing creativity. Especially focusing on activities that help to form femininity.

 

The secret is simple. If you want to truly become happy in your relationship, and want to have a beloved man next to you who will admire you, then work on yourself to develop all the best that nature has given you - your femininity!

 

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