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What kind of women creates the happiest relationships? Why is it difficult for a beautiful and successful woman to find happiness, while other women who don’t share comparable qualities are popular with men? How do men choose their partners?

 

A woman does not need to have rare beauty or an outstanding mind in order to cause a man to fall in love with them. The muse of Salvador Dali named Gala was an unattractive woman who left her husband for many years and inspired the genius to create immortal masterpieces. Maria Eichendorff was an outwardly unremarkable woman who turned the heads of many prominent men, among whom was the English writer Herbert George Wells.

 

The lack of rare beauty these women shared did not prevent them from marrying many times and inspiring men to make them happy. What was so special about these women? How did they win the love of these talented men? The answer is simple. In them, men found their strong female sexual energies much more attractive than beauty.

 

When a woman imbues femininity and sexual energy, she is able to give her man inspiration and becomes a source of energy where he draws strength. These women play the following four roles harmoniously:

• Lover,
• Hostess,
• Queen, and
• Girl

 

To make these roles clearer, let’s correlate them with the following energies:

• Lover: Is to fire and sexual energy;
• Girl: Is to water and emotional energy;
• Mistress: is to the earth and physical energy; and
• Queen: Is to air and mental energy.

 

Women often make the mistake of not operating in all four roles in their relationships, and choosing only one or two roles while forgetting about others. For example, many women when becoming wives will limit themselves to the role of a good housewife, while ceasing to burn with a hot passion befitting a mistress, or they just look at their husbands with admiration, as a girl would do. This is not enough for men as they won’t receive the fulfillment they need.

 

What do these roles give a man?

 

The most important role in a romantic relationship women should never neglect, is the role of a mistress, the most attractive to a man.

 

1. The Role of A Lover (Fire):

 

Lover - means that a woman will need to demonstrate passion, frankness, and sensuality to her lover. In general, the image of a mistress is a feeling of femininity and openness.

 

In the role of a Lover, a woman gives a man pleasure, as well as a sense of being exclusively chosen. The energy of passion and satisfaction motivates him to perform "feats" for her sake.

 

In the role of a Lover, a woman receives from a man pleasure, satisfaction, the energy of completeness, integrity, gratitude, affection, acceptance, and a sense of being in demand.

 

2. The Role of The Mistress (Earth):

 

In this role, a woman should show qualities such as practicality, and calmness, as well as the ability to take care of her beloved. In fact, we are talking about satisfying the physical needs of the husband with tasty food, and creating a cozy home atmosphere so that the man feels comfortable, calm, and taken care of.

 

The energies of the mistress include the energies of female "security". This is the same strength factor that supports a man’s feeling of home, or a family nest. It is also female generosity, pliability, and abundance. This is the calm wisdom with which a woman meets life's adversities. She is forgiving, and merciful, and shows the characteristic of having a big, passionate woman's heart.

 

In this state, a woman’s motherhood instincts are realized. She loves, protects, educates, and transmits the vitality and experience of previous generations. The hostess is also the energy of inner maturity, confidence, and strength. This is a Guardian Woman, not only of the family hearth but in traditions.

 

It’s not only important what and how you cook, but the manner in which it’s served. Emotional "nutrition" is an equally important element of the home microclimate. You should cook decorate food with love and set the table with some cute details and surprises. Please him with your smiles, recharge him with optimism and a good mood. This is all very, very important.

 

In the role of the Mistress, a woman gives a man comfort, care, rest, stability, and understanding.  While in this role, a woman receives care, gratitude, respect, understanding, and stability from her man.

 

3. The Role of The Queen (Air):

 

The queen is proud, knows her worth, and is admired. A woman’s incarnation as a Queen predominates intellectual and creative energies. She is moderately independent, reasonable, successful, and diversified. A man expects approval and support from the Queen when he shares stories about work or business. She is consulted about vital issues, as a rule, and he considers her a true friend.

 

In the role of the Queen, a woman gives a man support, female wisdom, intuition, personal experience, or valuable professional advice that conveys support. In the role of the Queen, a woman receives from her man respect, admiration, recognition of her personal "royal" value, sincere interest, a desire to win again and again, and her loyalty to her man.

 

4. The Role of The Girl (Water):

 

The image of the Girl may seem simple, but in fact, it is very important and rich in meaning. A girl is not only lightness, carelessness, and the ability to sincerely rejoice and accept the world, but she openly demonstrates her emotions. It is these deep energies that are vital for creating a platonic foundation in a relationship. The girl's energies are pure and ringing vibrations of absolute trust, admiration, and selfless love with "open eyes" in a man. This is the ability to accept and surprise.

 

A woman in the role of a girl is flexible, spontaneous, natural, and believes in miracles. Remember the well-known aphorism: "Miracles are where they are believed in, and the more often believed, the more often they happen." It is also the energy of happiness and health, love of life, and FAITH in miracles, that EVERYTHING is possible in this life!

 

Every child is a little magician. For children, there are no boundaries, time, or limits. The child believes that the world is kind, generous, and bright. It belongs to them, elves are hiding in the grass, and wishes come true on New Year's Eve. The desires of a woman living from the state of a Girl really come true faster than others.

 

In the role of a Girl, a woman gives a man trust, admiration, joy, and inspiration. In the role of a Girl, a woman receives from a man care, safety, help, joy, tenderness, and protection.

 

Conclusion

 

Ideally, all four of these roles should naturally be combined and interchanged at will.  Unfortunately, women don’t always succeed in strategically switching between these roles at the right time to achieve the desired outcome. Developing this skill is important. Be aware of which role you are operating in and how many roles you have expressed to your beloved each day.

Do everything with love, care, and kindness. This will help you develop a more desirable and interesting relationship with your man. Your personal happiness will soar!

 

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